It makes me wonder when I recently visited a large shopping mall, are people really cutting back on purchases this year? Is it the gloom of the state of our economy, which has many families re-thinking their gift buying this Christmas? Typically, the majority of people seem to spend more than they can afford, especially if they’re buying for their children, grandchildren, brothers, sisters, parents, or other relatives.

I really believe that with the current economic condition and what it shall be for the upcoming year, everyone needs to refocus and shop within their means. What people should do is to calculate what their expenses are and then from that, figure out a budget for Christmas gift shopping. Too many have used their credit cards or relied on other revenues to purchasing their gifts. We should all put our credit cards away and use available cash. Too many of us purchase by bulk so that the underneath of our Christmas tree is packed tightly with assorted gifts for everyone.

During this time of year, I frequently think of what it used to be like when I was a child and how we celebrated the Christmas Season. To me, the thought of giving of something special and personal would be more appreciated than something store bought. When I was a child growing up in a family of eight, most of my gifts were usually crafted because of the income my father and mother had. My father would craft toy boats out of wood for the boys and my mother would make dolls for the girls. Those were the good old days. Now in today’s market, economically we’re not much better off than my parents were and we should all try to cut back on our debt. I think everyone is hurting for money and maybe keeping Christmas basic and simple and foremost remembering the true meaning of this Christmas holiday would be helpful and less stressful. I have jotted down some past ideas for creating and even getting those inexpensive gifts, by creating gifts, and most importantly enjoying your time this Christmas season with the family.

Now back to the basics. I believe that everyone should remember and discuss with each other the true meaning of Christmas. When asked of a grandchild what Christmas was all about, she said, ” How many presents you get under the tree”.

I hope I’ve offered an idea or two that will make your holiday a little easier and less stressful.